Many people don't fully understand the balance of powers that play a huge hand in our lifes. Many feel unable to control it because they think,
"You can't control everything. Some things just happen"
Which is true
Others believe everything is left is our hands and we must choose to make the best of it or it will best us every time.
That is also true
So where's the balance? Balance is, in my opinion, will always be the most consistent thing we have to opportunity to make and keep in our life. The truth is , fate and destiny are the two ends of which they themselves reside in delicate balance and they balance on your choices
In other words; everything always and will always come down to the choices you make with the hand that you've been dealt. (For your card players and gamblers out there)
Often times you'll feel powerless. A victim of circumstances beyond all your control, and in that state of mind you often migrate to the emotional ways of thinking, but please remember this
"Emotion isn't a thought, it's a feeling."
As this crescendos with the pile up of adversity; all rational thought goes completely out of play and it tends to lead to a metaphorical downward spiral
Or a nervous breakdown and irrational thoughts because, again, emotion is not a thought, it's a feeling.
And on the flip side, we ignore destiny and make fate of everything of our situations. We choose a direction; yet without an open mind to destiny or faith in it; we choose another path out of our destiny due to impatience and lack of faith in it.
You'll hear a lot of, " it wasn't going to work anyways" to justify their impatience but you cannot base decisions off impatience because, again, that's an emotion not a thought.
If anything else, remember this,
Fate and Destiny exists whether you choose (keyword choose) to agree with it or not. Everything isn't meant to work as well as it is meant to work because no matter what; everything happens for a reason. There's a reason why you're here. There's a reason why you're in the situation that you're currently in right now but there is NO reason why you can't change it if you want to.
Just as you can choose to make your life better you can choose to make it worse.
" Balance be the key to all happiness that you bring in your life. Your intuition be your lighthouse to guide you righteously "
