Monday, May 20, 2013
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Friday, May 10, 2013
The Process
I once wrote of a segment that I called "Trust The Process" and I want to explain to you what I mean when I say that. Life has a process in which things breakdown, go wrong or fall apart and then they're built back up again. Much like our muscle tissue when we workout.
We go through a process of constant break down and build up over and over again to achieve a goal, in this case our dream physique.
However, in life, while have the exact same process, there is a difference because there are two types of people in this world. There are those of us who take this process headon. We shift and progress through all the pain, the bullshit and the doubt because have faith in ourselves and that all of our effort will not have been in vain.
When it is all said and done and it's all over; we are met with great rewards for our struggles and further our journey to even better rewards.
Then there are those of us who do the exact opposite. We carry on until we hit turmoil and the second we do; we regress. We regress over and over again until we are no better off than where we were when we first started our journey through life.
I, myself, cannot settle of an average being. I cannot settle for average anything. I want great EVERYTHING. No matter how bad things get, no matter how hard life hits you MUST, yes MUST, keep getting up and keep pushing forward.
Life isn't easy! You know this!
Times are gonna be hard, money is going to be tight and things aren't always going to workout but if you keep going and you don't quit I promise you your reward is on its way. I GUARANTEE you that all of your work will pay off dearly because that's the process.
Each and every one of you have done so much in your time and have accomplished a lot, and all I want for each and every one of you to have more and more success. Trust the process because it's the way life works. Keep your mindset right , your work ethic high and stay ahead of that curve because if you do, I promise you have the greatest life imaginable.
All you have to do is decide to do it. Take that love you have and all that passion you have ans spread it into all areas of your life and watch the seeds of all your labor bring a fruitful harvest for you and your loved one's to enjoy forever.
Happy Training.
Sunday, April 28, 2013
Success Never Sleeps
There are so many different ways to explain this concept that so many people just don't understand, but I find it easier understanding why they DON'T instead of why they DO. Truth be told, people are lazy. We live in an entitlement rich society where we are giving awards for, "Just showing up" and that completely de-values the reward of hard work and dedication. Thus the majority people that if they just show up, they will get what they want.
When I was growing up, I was taught then when you work hard, consistently pursue and never give up that great things come your way and if you don't then you have no one to blame for the lack of your own personal success but yourself. Now, I see nothing but people expecting all the work to be done overnight or in an instant once they make the decision of what they want.
I can't count how many times I've had the luxury to work with some amazing clients and they get a month in of solid training and they decide they will try it on their own and see what happens or they want to "Maintain". It , for the most part, ALWAYS ends the same. All the weight that was once lost, is put back on and then some. All the strides that were made and all the obstacles that were overcome come back swinging on all cylinders and it goes back to square one.
Here is the truth, there is no such thing as maintaining. Once you accept the idea of maintaining, then you accept the idea of it's okay to gain a little weight because you can lose it fast, right?
Think of it this way: Two people set different goals to achieve. One person sets a goal to lose 10 lbs and be able to run 2 miles with some ease and the other sets a goal to lose 25 lbs and run 3 miles with ease. Both have a time from of 3 months to achieve these goals. Now, lets say they come up short. This person only lost 5 lbs instead of 10 and can't run 2 miles with ease and the other looses 20 lbs and can only run 2 miles with ease. Now, which fall short will be harder? Would you feel worse if you lost 5 lbs instead of 10? or 20 lbs instead of 25?
The thing is, if you don't completely overcompensate to achieve your goals, you will come up shy because you will have obstacles over obstacles over obstacles and they will never quit coming. In fact, the only thing that will voluntarily or involuntarily quit is YOU.
Success is a lifestyle and it never ever sleeps and it never ever quits. Of course life happens, but it's all up to you to choose to be bigger than your opposition. No one will do it for you and no one can stop you.
Wednesday, April 10, 2013
Training Personalised
In my extent experience as a Fitness Expert and my personal experience in the fitness way of being I've come across many different people who all come to the gym for many different reasons. Some come for vanity while others are more concerned with their longevity.
Whether you're at the gym for a good reason or not there will only be ONE factor that'll determine whether or not you achieve this goal whatever the said goal is and it's simply this:
"Do I know what the hell I'm doing?"
Ask yourself this very important question and it's not important because it's the sole reason for your goals to be succeeded or not, but it's the constant concern of safety! If you don't know what you're doing you stand a HUGE chance of getting hurt and that, to me, is far worse than not achieving your goals as quickly as you want.
So unless you've researched every thing on working out that you possibly could or workout with someone who knows what they're doing, chances are that you're trying to 'Wing" it. I hate to break it to you but you cannot "wing" this lifestyle. Winging it here leads to herniated discs, torn rotator cuffs and lifetime injuries.
Many fitness enthusiasts and supporters say to hire a trainer. Even if it's to properly learn form. It's worth the investment and it truely is.
One thing so many people have the misconception of is that personal training is a "luxury" or that only rich people can afford personal trainers.
Luxuries are NOT investments in your health and well-being. Luxuries are frivolous spending on commodities you don't need and serve no other purpose than simply to have and that's it. This investment is for everyone who's ready to commit to a healthier and better life.
So when you're out shopping for clothes you don't need, shoes you don't wear, fine dining on things that make you fat and picking up the tab at the bar for drinks that poison you, take a look in the mirror. If you can honestly say you're happy with what's looking back at you, then by all means have your food, your drink and enjoy your clothes.
If you don't like what's looking back at you then I'd say it's time to make the commitment to a better you. I'm not saying that you'll need a personal trainer for life and I'm not saying you cannot do it on your own. I'm simply saying that for all the money you spend on your commodities; you could use that money to invest in a healthier, happier and hotter you.
At the end of the day, we have no one to blame but ourselves for our shortcomings. Whether they may be hereditary or not, it's still no excuse to not do anything about it
Happy Training
Thursday, March 28, 2013
What's Your Investment?
Many of times I have constantly referred to Personal Training as an investment and while having a conversation with a friend, I think u have found a way to relate to you what I mean when I'm talking about investments.
We all have lived in an apt at one time or another and we all know what goes into it. Desposits, Fees , and Rent. We stay for however long the lease may be and we are done. What's our return from all this money we spent? Not even a full deposit at times and even MORE fees to pay. Now those of you who own a house, know the process. Same thing almost. The difference is the return or what your money has done for you. The keyword we are looking for here Profit and some of us make an awesome profit from investing in a house, am I right?
Now many of the optimists will say, "well there is a return either way and besides, apartments are cheaper than houses." They are correct. They are cheaper in the short term but let's be honest about "Short Term". It doesn't last. How many of you had to buy something because you needed it right then and there and you ended up having to buy something similar or the same thing because something for "Short term" didn't work?
Now, what does this have to do with your health and wellness? Everything. We know all about short term. We age. We get slower, weaker, fatter and things get harder. I bet there was once a time when some of you could eat whatever you want and not gain a single pound. Now, if you even look at a cupcake you gain 5lbs. I am also willing to bet some of you could spend a week in the gym, drop 15lbs and be good for a month or so. In short, the short term is only good for the short term.
Personal Training and exercise alone for that matter is about the Long term. It's a constant invest and reinvest in yourself and your own well being. Let's be honest about it. That bootcamp you once did or that diet you tried for a while, it didn't work and it's because you have to constantly reinvest in it for that return. Sure, we won't be getting money on this return, but here is what you'll get:
Longer life
Better life
Stronger
Faster
Better looking
Better mood
Longer lasting body
Better sex
Look better in everything
Your body will work more efficiently
Not to mention you'll be a walking inspiration for others. A mobile billboard for what happens when you invest in yourself.
Get fit quick schemes, fad diets and your once or twice a month trip to the gym isn't going to cut it. That's the Apt you're living in. Commitment to your diet, your workouts and yourself is the home you raise your children in.
Happy Training
Friday, March 8, 2013
Choppin' At The Bit
Allow me to introduce you to the man, whom in my opinion, is one of the greatest heavyweight boxers of all time. His name is Rocco Francis Marchegiano aka Rocky Marciano. He is the only heavyweight to go undefeated and untied in his professional career and was knocked down only once by the man in the picture. That man, obviously paid dearly for that, is named Jersey Joe Walcott
So why Rocky? What makes him the greatest? Why did he go undefeated and untied? Two words my friends:
Training
Determination
I'll break them down for you like this. Rocky was an avid Joe Louis fan and if you dont know Joe Louis is then I feel bad for you. Rockys mentality was, "if I train twice as hard as the champ, then I can beat the champ."
This simple mental state is was propelled him to an illustrious career in boxing. He ran twice as far as the champ, boxex twice as many rounds as him as well. He believed to be the best, you gotta train to beat the best. Rumour has it that he had a hard time keeping sparring partners. Another one states he had a custom made 250lbs heavy bag that he would intentionally try to swing with the impact from his punches. If it wouldn't swing, he'd train harder. If it did swing, he wanted it to swing a lot or he'd train harder.
Determination, a set goal in mind to inspire and propel himself beyond his own comprehensible capability as a fighter. We all have our reasons for the hustle, his was his family.
His father worked in Brockton making shoes for a living, and it killed Rocky. He knew he didn't want to make shoes for a living and he damn sure didn't want his father in the factory anymore. His determination to take care of his parents and get out of Brockton only fueled his training and elevated him to that championship level.
Now what can we take away from this? That it doesn't matter who you are, what you're doing, or where you came from. With determination and hard work, ANYTHING can happen. Absolutely anything. All it takes are those first few steps through all the BS, Negativity and Doubt to get to your promise land. Don't think for a second that anyone who was ever great never had a doubt before, because they have.
Rocky did after he killed a fellow Italian fighter in the ring. Almost gave up boxing, gave up the dream and almost went to work in that same factory his father worked. He didn't. He became bigger than the situation and he continued on. He's only human, just as we are.
If he can ... if I can ... you can.
Happy Training.
Wednesday, March 6, 2013
Things Just Happen?
In my experience as a personal trainer, it has become more and more apparent to me that people love to NOT take responsibility for their own actions. It seems they always have an excuse for their poor health, lack of fitness and obesity. I've heard it all.
"Everyone in my family is fat so it must be genetics. I'm big boned"
Genetics play a insignificant roll in your choice to get off your ass and do something about your weight. No, not go on a diet or go buy P90X and use it for a few days. More like CHANGE YOUR LIFESTYLE.
"I'm too busy"
You're too busy for your health? Are you to busy too watch TV? Are you too busy too go out drinking? Are you too busy to go out shopping? No? Then no, you're not busy. You have a case of bad time management mixed with a bit of lazy. Schedule it! Give yourself anywhere from 45 minutes to 2 hours a day for a week to make something happen.
"I've tried working out and it didn't work."
Really? Working out doesn't work? So all of those people you see at the gym that are slowly molding and forming the body that YOU want, they're wasting their time because working out doesn't work? Honestly, how hard did you try? Or were you going through the motions without really testing yourself?
Truth hurts, but I am essentially a " No BS " trainer. Your hard earned money and precious time is valuable and doesn't deserve "beating out the bush" rhetoric. Believe me when I say that things don't just happen. You aren't unhealthy, "just because." There is a reason for everything and there is a very specific reason why you are where you are now. Despite the reason, you have to remember that there is nothing that can stop you from having the body you want, looking as good as you want or achieving the goals you've set out to accomplish but your own attitude. Think about it.
Happy Training